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Hey there mommies. I need your help.
I'm extremely confused.
For the past couple months I've been having pregnancy symptoms.
I took tests, the first was negative, while the second was positive.
I took a test a couple days later to make sure I wasn't crazy. (morning pee)
It was negative. Well, another later in the day came out positive.
I went to a place that does free tests because it's supposed to be "lab quality". Theirs was negative.
They say I might have hormonal problems or my depo, that I got 6 months ago..is still messing with my body.

I took it off my mind.
Well, here we are a month and a half later.
I had felt nauseated and am having cramping, so I figured maybe my period was finally coming back since I had the baby..
But I threw up, out of the blue. (I don't get nausea or vomiting upon PMS as I'm sure most of you don't).
I took one of those 88cent tests, a red ink test. It was negative.
The day after I started spotting, light pink. It stopped for a little while (maybe 6 hours)..then started again and keep on until yesterday. At a point it started to become a brighter red, but nothing period like. I took a test yesterday I think it was (this time a blue ink test).
I waited the two minutes, it was negative so I threw it in the trash.
I came back to use the bathroom about 5 minutes later and noticed a line had developed on it. This is one of the tests that shows a negative or plus sign.
I picked it up and low behold..it was showing positive. But I'm not so sure.
I hear a lot of talk about how they're not very reliable.
Could it be an evaporation line?
It is not grey, but a very thin blue horizontal line traveling completely across the result screen. I took the test apart to make sure it was not discolored below the line which in case would prove an evaporation mark. But the test was still wet also.
Any advice?
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~CountessPruben Jan 15, 2013  Student Writer
I want to ask the single mom's out there for advice. My boyfriend left me, I am young, but I want so much to take good care of my daughter when she gets here. I have the necessities, I just feel like I'm going to mess up all by myself. Any advice? Please?
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*Sleeplessmama Jan 29, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I wasn't a single mom but I have had many single mom friends and I find them to be some of the strongest women I know. Take it one day at a time. Try to find someone who can be a strong support system cuz you will need it and if you are a praying women I suggest that be a daily routine. I'm sorry for your circumstances and I will keep you in my prayers.
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~CountessPruben Jan 29, 2013  Student Writer
thank you very much. i will try that
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~Andrae420 Jan 17, 2013  Professional Photographer
Read everything you can, definitely the What to Expect series and trust your instincts. 17 or 27 no first time mom knows what they are doing. Its a learning experience and journey that you and your daughter will take together. If you want any more advice or just like someone un biased to talk to please feel free to message me. I was a young single mom too.
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~CountessPruben Jan 17, 2013  Student Writer
thank you, i have definatly been stocking up on books, everything I can get my hands on.
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`HazelCraft Jan 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I may not be a single mom now, but I was one.

The best you can do is make certain you have a job, a sitter, and a place to live. It also helps to have friends and/or family for those days you just need help. Keep your chin up as well. Expecting to fail will make you fail. You can do this!
Women are born strong, we just have to realize it and make things happen. Being a single mom is hard. Very hard, but it can be done. Just make sure you have an outlet for your emotions so you don't end up falling into depression or harming anyone, including yourself.

And remember, we're here. We will listen and we will give advice. And if we aren't enough, there is state assistance (if you are in the US) and there are numbers to call (anonymously) to vent and get help if needed. Don't ever be afraid to ask for anything as what you are asking for is no longer for you, but for the little one you will soon be holding.

Good luck!
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~CountessPruben Jan 16, 2013  Student Writer
thank you so much. I guess I am just really afraid for my daughter. I feel like every little girl needs her daddy but he wont be there. I will try to remember to keep outlets, thank you!
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`HazelCraft Jan 17, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Every child needs a mother and father but sometimes the best daddies are the ones who aren't blood related. My step father was a better man, most kind and gentle, yet firm. He trumped my real father in so many ways.
You can do this, really you can. Just don't lose sight of your goals while you are at it. :heart:
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=SolarLunix Oct 10, 2012   General Artist
Thanks for asking for the boys in your gallery - they are my bro's though, hope that doesn't change things ^^;
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